TIPS AN TECHNIQUES
So as said before the memories I have, the little triggers I get all still hurt me and cause me to regress to the moment in which it happened… So now I will give you the techniques I use to put these out of my head and help me to become a little bit stronger… These techniques are ones that I don’t need to have a counsellor around to use or do these are simple and easy and for me and I hope those who may need them it can help you too…
1. pick and flick
This is one my friend told me. It’s what I start off with, I pick the memory; I imagine the memory getting pushed inside this box and packed up then in my mind I flick it with a giant finger SEND IT FLYING!!!!
2. The next thing I do is my tapping, which I talked about previously… This is done till I’m calm enough to do a meditation ritual… I’ll talk about two over points 3 & 4.
3. This meditation technique is the simplest one and one I personally can use anywhere… Are you ready… Close your eyes… And listen for the silence…
You will find there is none and this will simply calm your mind and still your breathing to make you at peace again… Or at least it does for me and after doing this for a while I now can do this eyes open or closed with much the same effects.
4. This is not so simple you can do this sitting up or laying down which ever you prefer… Start with your eyes closed, and picture yourself sitting beside a mountain ( this mountain is as tall as your problems) and slowly a cloud comes down to you which you step on and sink onto… It can take your whole weight just let yourself sink deeper and deeper… Until you are completely laying in the fluffiness of this cloud… And then this cloud takes you to this highest point of the mountain, where you step off and there you are washed over by a calming (insert your happy colour) mist washing away the worries left in your body… Slowly you walk forward and after the mist someone that gives you great joy is waiting to take your hand… They may talk to you or just walk with you, your walking up to a waterfall… This is the last stop on your journey through this meditation and where your person lets go of your hand and let’s you sit under the waterfall gettin washed over and finally relaxing into a deep slumber of peace…
These 3 steps are what keep me together, and save me each day… And these are what let me talk now finally of my hurt and pain because I know that it will help me and maybe someone else along the way.